infatuation: The action of infatuating, or condition of being infatuated; a making or becoming fatuous; possession with extravagant folly; an extravagantly foolish or unreasoning passion.
secretive: Of persons, their feelings, habits, etc.: Addicted or inclined to secrecy; reticent; not frank or open.
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